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BLAIRE'S BLOG
"You have brought inspiration to my life. In the beginning I was in such a crappy relationship and reading your column made me feel better about myself and I finally dumped the loser... 6 months ago, I finally found the one" - L., Pittsburgh, PA
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Tuesday February 19th 2008 Hey there my friends! How are you? These days are all about "extreme" sports. It started with Bikram Yoga, which I consider "extreme" since the room is crazy hot and you're in all these different positions...and now it's onto spinning. Years ago, when I was working on the side as a trainer I had tried spinning. I didn't like it - actually I think I hated it and never went back. The other day I was wandering around the gym (you may recall how the *sparkle* of the gym has sort of worn off for me) and noticed a spinning class was about to start. So needless to say - I sat my ass down and began cycling. It was fun. Intense and kind of crazy at times, but fun. I liked it and it makes me feel like I'm training for something. Pushing my body. And sweating it out... it's great, and my body has been feeling great too. It's back to being tight and in shape (I was feeling yucky for awhile there) - so now I'm back to feeling great. Man, why do we let our bodies go.... I didn't have a chance to tell you guys, but on Valentines Day I was interviewed on a radio show for the UK, it's called Insight Radio and is for blind people or partially blind people. I think it's interesting because that's the second interview I gave for the blind or partially blind community. Something to think about there.... and I thought it was pretty cool that she called from the UK to get the interview, although ...now this is something you may not know about me :-) I'm really bad at understanding people with accents. It can be anything really and it's kind of a joke in my family. I can go eat Italian food every night of the week and the one day I'm in a restaurant with a waiter with a little heavier of an accent and I'll have no clue what he's saying. It happens more than I'd like to admit and it's pretty funny if you're with me a few times..you start seeing the pattern. Anyway, my point with that is that she was asking me some pre-interview questions and I was like "what?" and had to listen extra hard. Ha! it's all good :-) So my Dating Boot Camp is over. That was a great experience and the girls came out changed women. Over the 6 weeks I kept hearing "what a relief that I don't need to date guys I'm not totally excited about" and "I didn't realize I was giving off that impression" and "I didn't realize how I was playing so small and hiding my true self like that." I feel like I have some new friends from the experience too :-) Also, since it's over..you know what that means, the next offering for the Dating Boot Camp is just around the corner. Stay tuned for that and watching in your inbox for the invite (sign up for the newsletter if you're not already) I'm very excited about a teleseminar I have coming up. Info is here. It gets to the bottom of.... what is my guy thinking? How do I tell him what I'm feeling. It's going to be great and very intimate. Also, there's an early bird pricing available for 6 more days... reserve your spot now.
Wednesday February 13th 2008
I'm also planning a BIG trip this year to Hawaii. It's a dream come true for me and I'm so excited about it. Have you been? If so, email me places that I MUST SEE. Thanks! So much to say..where do I start? Well, first off this lovely picture of me to the right is how I spend many days in Florida. I call it my "Office in the Sea" :-) I love sitting in the water like that. Heaven! I'm going to have to continue this post another day because I ran out of time today...but stay tuned. Two more things 1) if you're a single guy looking for love, go here - it's for you! www.datingtipsfordudes.com
2) tomorrow on my newsletter (make sure you sign
up if you're not already - go to
www.loveguru.net to sign up) I'm announcing a really great teleseminar
tomorrow. (All you need is your phone). I'm really excited about it
and it's going to be really great...and such a low price for early bird sign
ups. It's a topic you've been asking me about...and well, tune in
tomorrow. Talk in a few - b
Wednesday January 23rd 2008 Hi guys! Surprised to hear from me two days in a row? What can I say...I couldn't stay away! I just got back from taping my second segment for the Montel Show today and it was great. I had so much fun - and Montel is so nice. Now, I'm not just saying that, because some hosts aren't the most personable or interested...and he is. I was pleasantly surprised. He's a cool guy. So check it out...here's our picture... You can see how happy and smiley I am. No matter how often I am interviewed in the Press I still get super excited. I love it! Ohh..and tune in, it airs on Wednesday January 30th - that's NEXT Wednesday. Check your local listings for times and channel or go to the montelshow.com
Montel Williams and Love Guru, Blaire Allison
Tuesday January 22nd 2008
Hi friends! How are you? I've been
movin' and groovin' over here. Taping my second segment for Montel this
week (yep, I'm going to be on Montel!! very I am so grateful for my boot camp. It's everything I ever wanted for my girls and more. Just after two weeks, they are already creating healthier dating and attracting habits. They're trusting more, they have a definite plan on how to go about attracting men. Anyway, they say it better than me.... "I’m feeling much more relaxed about dating and about finding the one. And I notice that I have much less fear surrounding finding the one. Yayyy!" "I’m noticing things about myself that are working against me, that I never noticed before." "I realized that the way I present myself has been holding me back" It goes on and on and it's such a fulfilling experience to see the success they are having. I feel a motherly instinct come up, that I'm so proud of them :-) Corny, maybe..I know, but it's true :-) We're adding in a special shopping day for one of the girls, because she's had some very powerful realizations about the way she has been dressing...and how she truly wants to be presenting ourselves. Anyway I can't say enough how powerful the experience has been for them and me. Since I've been getting such positive results I'm offering another boot camp in April or May. If you'd like to be involved and one of the first to know about when tickets are for sale, email me here - since if you remember I give a HUGE discount for early bird sign ups.
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And one last announcement... (yep, lots going on...) If you live in NYC or NJ and are Female, you're invited to the fun!! My company is having a special Valentines Day Event.... Lap Dance Class, BJ Class, Sex Toy Party, Gift Bags, Welcome Gift as soon as you step in the door, Raffles, and more surprises... it's a 2 hour event! Come whether you're single or coupled up or married... "Surprise Your Man This Valentine's Day With a Gift He'll Really Enjoy!"
Don't wait and then kick yourself later, these classes SELL OUT!
Tuesday January 15th 2008 Hi guys! How is everyone? Boy, the year has just swept me up! I'm glad because I like being busy, working on my projects, creating, learning, and having fun. So much to share....I still have a whole list of things to tell you about! # 1) Bikram Yoga. Love it! When I was on vacation I tried it for the first time. I've been thinking about it for a few years, heard about it here and there in passing, but vaca was the time for it to go down :-) For those of you who aren't familiar with Bikram, its the yoga that you take in a 90 degrees and hotter room. You sweat like crazy and it's intense. See, I've been in yoga class for a few months now (regular yoga) and it's okay. People go nuts over yoga but I never got what they were so excited about. Then there was Bikram..... First I was a bit scared. There's all these notes on the website before you come down to a class...make sure you've eaten at least 2-3 hours before class, wear a tank top and loose fitting shorts, bring lots of water, make sure your properly hydrated before class...on and on. I was a bit freaked out about fainting, or not drinking enough beforehand...or whatever. Plus the fact that the class is 90 minutes, which I thought was crazy long. Anyway, I went. Ends up my dad has been wanting to try it out too (which shocked me, because my dad is the anti-new age-y, anti-stretching, type of guy but go figure). Ends up one of his golf buddies told him about it, how he had liked it, seen differences, and I guess my dad wanted to talk to him about his experience too. Anyway - we went. A nice father daughter experience. We walk in and the studio is nice. I love all the yoga supplies, the statues, the chimes, etc...that's all my style. The people had that vibe too. Right as you walk in you feel the dampness in the air...then the smell follows. There was this nasty, sweaty smell in the air. My nervousness about the whole experience combined with the sweaty smell in the air made me feel like I was going to puke. Disgusting. BUT I had committed to this new experience. It's something I've been wanting to do for awhile..and now was the time. I went to the bathroom, got some more water bottles for my dad and I, and got settled in the studio. Class started. No music like there usually is. Just 20+ people, right next to one another, on mats, stretching, and breathing, with the teacher guiding us through the whole journey. It was intense.....and I loved it. There's times when you think you're going to die. There's times when you're sweating so bad. Then there's times that you're breathing so hard cause again, you think you just can't make it. Then there's the mind freak outs.... and then you hit this zone that you realize you can leave at any time (and someone did leave in the middle of the class) - and that it's no big deal. You breathe through the whole process, drinks loads of water, breathe again, breathe more, louder, deeper...and you survive. Again, it was so intense and I absolutely loved it. I feel I walked out of there a whole new person. I had a spiritual experience, something that I feel I bring with me in the world now. I realized at a whole deeper level that all my fears are just in my mind...and if I breathe deeply enough, that I'll get through all of them. Again, it was intense...and I miss it. At a time when many people are joining the gym for their New Years Resolution, I'm quitting mine. I just don't like it anymore and feel like it's a chore to go to..which I hardly even get there anymore. I'd rather be outside and I think I'm going to take a Bikram Class up here once in a while. I did some research and there's a Bikram class around 25 minutes away. Not too close, but we'll see.... I'm looking forward to the end of January when I go back to Florida and will take another class. I like taking the class in warm weather, cause you walk out of there crazy sweaty and it's easier than showering at the studio (yuck) and bundling up for the cold. # 2) My Dating Boot Camp started! This week will be Session #2. It's great and the energy of the group is wonderful. So supportive and I feel so honored to be teaching them. You'll be hearing their success stories soon.... # 3) In just a few days I'm launching a new CD program that's filled with dating techniques for you guys. I got the idea to put all my techniques together into 1 audio program by questions I received by you guys. It's entitled: “The Love Guru's Best Kept Dating Secrets - Proven Ways To Meet Men Everywhere You Go And Attract The One.” Some of the many things I'm going to be covering is.. ** What you must do if you want guys to line up and ask you out... ** If you don't know this, your chances of attracting guys who are on the "same page" as you are very slim. ** A guaranteed technique, that if you just do this - and nothing else on the audio program, it will work in attracting your "One" ** The fastest way on earth to draw love to you - if you do this right you can step out of your house the minute you get this program, use the technique, and get a guy to ask you out - instantly... and we're just getting started.... there's tons of info on this audio and I answered many of your frequently asked questions about dating. Stay tuned.... # 4) And a huge announcement that I'm really excited about...I'm going to be taping 1 of 2 segments for a National Talk Show this week. Yep! I'm going to be the dating guest expert on TV, teaching a single, confused, frustrated girl how to attract men. I'm so excited and I'm preparing for my TV gig now, which means (among other things) going out and purchasing makeup. Foundation specifically. It's funny, really... I haven't worn foundation in the longest time, but for TV its a must. Gotta look pretty :-) So that's one of my projects today - practicing putting on foundation and finding a shade that matches my skin shade. This makeup thing is just hilarious.... (and fun!) More details as they come :-) Send me luck when I do the show...! Talk soon!
Thursday January 3rd 2008 Happy New Year my friends. ** Here's a 3-Minute Sneak Peek For You!*** Monday December 31st 2007
Here's a picture of me on my daily walk down the shore. So much to talk about.... let's see. Well, I had tons of inspirations when I was away and be on the lookout for some new dating products and events to help you find love in '08 Are you signed up for the Dating Boot Camp? It starts on Tues Jan 8th and I'm super excited about the group of girls who are already part of it. I had a bunch of inspirations about the program over vacation and I'm adding to the itinerary and material as we speak :-) Sign up for the Dating Boot Camp here I'm really grateful I have a place to stay in Delray (several actually) and decided when I was down there I'm going to come down each month during the winter. Last night, I booked another 10-day vacation for January and I need to coordinate dates for February and March this week. I'm really excited about it...and it dawned on me the 1st day I was down there... "Hey, I love this weather, I need to be in the sun, I need to be by the ocean, I want to move to CA but don't have immediate plans to do so as I still need to align some other things in my life, but hey, I have a bunch of places to stay in Delray so why don't I start living down here part time for the winter months" It's funny how the opportunity is there for you all the time and then one day you "wake up" and realize it. That's what happened with me and Florida, plus the fact that I was hating FL for several years..but it's all good now. Something happened the last few vacations that all of a sudden I'm really enjoying it down there again. So for the sake of not doing a tremendous post, as I can write on and on about all that I've been up to... I thought I would end it here and share a video from from my first day in Florida. I used to take home videos all the time when I was younger, then I stopped for many years, and thankfully started it up again with my trip to Cali. It's fun - I like it! So enjoy my friends and Happy New Year! May '08 be filled with even more love, success, abundance, and happiness! Lots of love -
Monday December 10th 2007
Next topic. My car. So, my car's lease is up in 6 months. When I got the car three years ago I think I had to make somewhat of a rushed decision (not sure if that's the actual truth, but it's what I remember of the experience). So since that was the case 3 years ago, I thought I'd start shopping NOW. Yep, live it up baby! For years my favorite car was a blue convertible BMW. Now's the time that I can get this car...but I'm not sure I want it anymore. I went to the dealership over the weekend, got lease prices, (which I was really surprised at the affordability - not much more than what I'm paying for my car now), looked around, and I just don't know..... My favorite car these days is the Range Rover Sport. Man, is that car beautiful. I see it everywhere I go - it's amazing looking...BUT I don't like SUV's plus I think it's 800+/month, which I think is outrageous for a car lease. I don't like it that much. ;-) In any event, we'll see. My debate with the car is that I don't think cars are really worth diddly. They depreciate in value. And if I had to choose between a nice piece of furniture, a phatter place in LA, or even a vacation (which I've been thinking about the most) then I'd 100% rather spend my money on that. So - I have a funny (somewhat) story related to my "what car should I get?" situation. I've put this question out to the Universe to guide me. (You know what I'm talking about if you study with me - wink :-) wink :-) ) And, I got my answer yesterday. (I just have to laugh about the 'coincidence-ness" of this). So anyway, I put the question out to the Universe and yesterday I got my answer. The answer was "no". How do I know, you may ask? What was that profound sign from the Universe I got back? Well, as I was shopping yesterday for a new comforter and another piece of furniture for my home, I was casually backing out of my parking spot and "BOOMMM!" I hit a yellow pole, which made a mark on my car. Yea, sucks but I just have to laugh at it. First I said "ohh shit" and then I laughed as I nodded to the Universe that I got the message. Doesn't look like it's a good idea for me to go for a beamer, at least not just yet. Anyway - thought you'd get a kick out of my signs story. Wish me luck finding a guy who will fix my car up "on the cheap" All the best guys..and Happy Holidays!
Tuesday December 4th 2007 Hi guys! Are you on my mailing list? If not, sign up right now....the form is right above this post.
The reason I'm telling you this? Well, of course so I can
keep in touch with you - but also because today I'm sending out an article
entitled, "Do you compromise too much in your relationships" and it's going to
ONLY be available to my mailing list subscribers. Now onto business..... here's a picture of me and my little man, Magic just a few weekends ago when we went hiking. We went several weeks in a row and it was so much fun. Now its freeeezzzzing so it's a bit too cold for him and me to be outside for any extended time. Check out the beautiful colors on the trees in the background, and that lake, just amazing! This hike was a particular treat for me (and him) as my dad came along and we spent some father/ daughter/dog time together, which is something we don't do so often. It was exciting to get my dad out of his normal routine (golf) and although I love my mom (and spend tons of time with her and them together) it was special to have some quality time with just him. Anyway, good times. We're going to go again - we just have to pray for some warmer weather. Help me people! Pray for warmth! (thanks in advance) :-) So are you one of the fabulous females already signed up for the Love Guru's Dating Boot Camp: "A 6 Step Formula to Become Magnetic, Glowing, Flowing and Attracting “the One”? The group is forming (just about 40% Sold Out!!) and I'm going to be guiding them to make their '08 the year of love. Are YOU ready to finally find HIM? and have a non-frustrating, non-confusing, non so-so, just okay relationship? Get your spot here
Monday November 26th 2007 Hi my friends! Wow, it feels like a long time since I've written you. How is everyone? I'm really excited for my dating teleclass tomorrow. Are you coming? I know I recognized a lot of familiar names coming through - are you one of them? I hope so! You still have time to register for this free phone class here. So Happy Thanksgiving everyone. Did you have a good time with your family? I did. I'm a big fan of tradition and I love when the whole family gets together. This year we spent the holiday with our close family friends, who are pretty much like family - we grew up with them - and had a fun time seeing our "extended family". One of their traditions is to do karaoke. It makes me laugh just thinking about it. Their father drags down the karaoke machine and hauls in an extra tv and we all gather in the living room to "get down." It gets pretty wild. LOL and yep, in case you're wondering...I did sing. Off key and all..it was fun. And while we were doing this whole thing, I caught up with one of their cousins, who again I have known for probably around 10 years now - but anyway, he looked different this time. He had this hip style to him, I enjoyed talking to him...and we seemed to connect on a lot of things, he looked cute too. It's one of those odd things, I guess. In the past I never noticed him. He's crazy smart. Got a perfect score on the SAT's and a full ride to Princeton. Yea, one of those..and in the past I always saw him as one of those geeky guys. I'm not really sure what happened, but he looked good this time around. Also, he always seemed so much older to me when we were growing up (in all reality he's just two years older than me) but I guess that's just one of those things. In any event, I'm going to come in and see him....and his girlfriend. HA! I thought you guys would get a kick out of that one. I'm not interested in dating him - I think it would be kind of weird even if we did date since I've known him for so long and our families are connected (although that could kind of work) but in any event, it's not like that for me. I'm back to my "I'm not in the mood to date" zone. See, my intention these days is about connecting with more like-minded people. That's actually been my intention for about 1 1/2 months now, ever since I went to this business/personal development workshop (I didn't get a chance to tell you about that, but it was amazing - I took off a week from work to develop myself and my business skills - and it was incredible). I met amazing people. Anyway, that's been my deal for these past months. Right now, I'm 100% into learning and exploring the world - and it's something I want to do on my own - and then connect with a partner, rather than do it with him. I feel I'm really coming into my own. Really exploring my essence and my gifts and I feel the world is opening up to me on such a larger level than ever before. It's interesting, because I had thought that I knew all there was to know about myself - and had gotten to a certain level with my spiritual growth, but here I am again. I feel like a kid exploring the world, like it's all new to me. That's really how it feels...and I'm grateful cause I have attracted some really great people to support me through this. One of those people is a man, who sent me an email out of the blue - who I had spoken to several brief times throughout the past 4 years - wanting to take me out on a date. He's many years older than me and understood that I'm seeking a life partner, but in any event he's one of my new friends. He's into the same spiritual growth I am - we've gone to many of the same workshops and seminars, hang out with the same personal development people, and ends up he's into Raw Food like I've been reading up on and really interested in lately. I thought that was very cool. Now it ends up, that not only all these things we have in common, but he is helping me with my business now too, which is great. Then last week, just before I took off for the holiday, I got this great email from a girl - which made me laugh, cause I thought she was picking me up (I was so flattered...my 1st girl date):
"I’ve seen
you a lot on (email group) and just wanted to say hi as we are both single,
cute, sassy and ready to create a wonderful lasting relationship! I checked out
your sites - you are quite the entrepreneur. I don’t think I can help you biz
wise at the moment ( I am going through some re-branding and career shifts so it
is not the best time for me to create new partnerships) but I would love to meet
you and perhaps hit the town together. My intuition says we would really hit it
off.
What a cute email. I had to totally read it twice cause I thought there was some mix up and the girl thought I was a guy (Blaire is a guy's name too so I thought that was the disconnect). Anyway, I love her. She's so cute and we've emailed a bit and I'm planning on meeting up with her shortly. I'm excited, I have a new friend :-) She's into Raw Food too (cool coincidence, right?!). So here are all the likeminded people being attracted to me. I love it and I'm so grateful to the Universe for answering my "request." So that's what I'm all about these days. Long post! See, that's what happens when I don't get to write as often. Plus I even have more stories to share. I'll post again.... Once again, Happy T-day. Did you list out your gratitudes? I just have to before I leave... I'm grateful for my home. I love how spacious and big it is and how it supports me in my creativity and spiritual growth. I'm grateful for my neighbors, they are so friendly and I love saying HI to them each day. I'm grateful for my sweetie Magic. He's so adorable and I'm grateful that he brings such happiness to my family when I bring him over. I'm grateful for my new friends - my raw foodies - I love it. I'm grateful for my juicer, my green veggies, and my new cookbooks. I'm grateful for enjoying cooking now - it's fun to chop the veggies and see all the colors I'm grateful for reconnecting with E. That was a cool surprise. I'm grateful for the Universe showing me a sign that I'm on the right path I'm grateful for my brother for making me laugh this morning. I really hope he does get me that gift on my Hanukkah List. That would be awesome! I'm grateful for N. She's amazing and so inspiring. I'm so grateful that she's one of my angels and such a great teacher - guiding me. Thank you g-d. I'm so grateful for my path and all the growth I go through, I feel grateful for knowing myself and you at such a deep level. I'm so grateful I have so many gifts to share. Thank you for supporting me.
Friday November 16th 2007 Hey Guys! I have a free dating teleclass coming up that I wanted to make sure you're coming to! It's happening in 1 1/2 weeks and we already have a great group of girls signed up for it - join in on the fun! I have a lot of info to share...don't miss out. See you on the call! Sign up now.
Thursday, November 8th 2007 Hi my friends! How are you? Life's been good and since I'm back in the dating arena I've been having a lot of fun. Date requests have been coming in like crazy! I got asked out 5 times (by quite confident, focused men) in the last week alone! It's like you turn on that faucet and they all flow your way. (Btw, stay tuned below...as I will be announcing a free dating teleclass, where I will be sharing my dating strategies with you) read on...it's below Anyway, so let me give you an update. The "African" was quite persistent and kept calling me. I didn't mind much as I enjoyed talking to him. He's very interesting and every time we would get on the phone it was like "class is in session" - and I was getting a Cultural Studies lesson. I loved it. Also as a very exciting twist, it ends up this guy is like royalty over in Africa! I'm not kidding! He sent me pictures of where he lives there and it's an absolutely beautiful home (think jewels all over the place - amazing furniture...remember the "Coming to America" movie - yea, exactly like that!) - servants and all. Amazing. He kept telling me "when I take you to Africa they'll treat you like a queen" - which of course sounded good to me, but he was moving a bit fast with that "relationship" talk, plus the fact that I was still thinking about how pushy he was the last weekend...and I really didn't want to experience that again. So I had to let the prince go.... (again, I'm talking literally here - his parents are public figures) and although it was sad to let go such a wealthy, attractive, "hot to trot" man (I figured out that most likely the reason why he was pushy was because in his country he's probably used to getting everything he wants and women, I'm sure, flock to him). In any event, although it was a bit sad to let (all he had to offer - LOL) go, I was quite impressed with myself at the caliber of man that I had attracted. This time around I'm attracting royalty! Yea, baby! Go me! Work has been so much fun and if you take a look around the website you'll notice there are tons of updates! Like here, and here, and here. Yep, that last link is for a Dating Boot Camp I am offering for 16 fantastic females who are interesting in meeting a man who is just the "right" age, someone who you'll want to spend time with, you'll be laughing about how many things you have in common, and you're sexual chemistry will be off the charts! That's right, it's going to rock! Tons of information, tons of exercises, and tons of fun. I'm really really into it and super excited to be working with a great group of women who are ready to be in an amazing relationship! If this is you, sign up for this program now, as I'm only taking 16 women into the program and it's going to SELL OUT. I'm also offering a Free Dating Advice Teleclass to eliminate frustration and attract love once and for all! That's coming up in 2 weeks - sign up now - it's free! That's all for today! (I know, so many updates but that's the way it goes over here!) Enjoy the week my friends. I'll touch base next week. Wishing you the best in love, Blaire
Monday, October 29th 2007 Hi my Friends! Thank you so much for sending me emails with feedback and answering the poll questions. So helpful! I'm getting ready to launch my Dating Boot Camp that I'm super excited about. Stay tuned for that. It's going to be 6 action packed weeks filled with Dating Strategies, Exercises, and Tools mixed with self exploration, friendship and fun. Stay tuned.... I'll announce it on here and in my email newsletter. Sign up for that baby through this website, if you're not already on the list. So Magic is all ready for Halloween - are you? Here he is looking cute as can be. He's going to be a Wizard this year...and look out, he's going to be casting tons of spells on Halloween night!
I've been researching some places to take him to see the kiddies. I've tried the hospitals, but looks like he needs some certification. The mall may be the spot. Little kids love him and they look so cute together. When he stands on his hind legs, he's the same size as them! It's adorable. So, on the dating front from me...I have some news. So after many months of me not giving a sh*t about men, I'm warming up to the idea of dating again. Yep, I'm back in the mood. It's taken some time, but I feel like taking the time and learning about someone again. Seeing what's up in someone else's life, etc... We'll see how it goes. And yea, another dating update...I have jungle fever. LOL. All kidding aside I did end up going on a date this past weekend, and yes, he's an African man. Literally. 4 years ago he moved here from Africa to get his MBA at Columbia (yep, you guys know me - I like them smart). We've chatted a few times in passing, as he lives in my building (I know...I know, not sure if that's such a good idea, but anyway...) we ended up going out dancing Saturday night in New Jersey. It's not the same as the city nightlife but when I date this time around I don't think I'm going to be trekking around for men. I'm a Jersey girl, proud of it...and I'm seeking a guy who has the same mindset...and possessions. Yep, we're talking about a house, a car... the usual suburban commodities. When you date a guy from the city he may own his apartment, but most likely it's small and that's just not my deal. I like space...and lots of it. The date was okay. It was good to go out and listen to some hip hop. The ex never liked the same music as me and that was always a downer. It's fun to groove to the same music together - and to share memories about songs, etc... I know it sounds like a minor thing, but with the last few guys I've dated our music choices were off from one another and although it's not a thing that "makes or breaks" a relationship, it would have been more fun to have the same interests in music.
I'm not sure I'll go out with him again, if I did it would just be on a friend basis, but he did call on Sunday to tell me that he'd call when he got back from his business trip on Wednesday, for us to do dinner on Thursday night. Yea, that's right - he didn't really ask me if I wanted to go get dinner...he just said that we would. Points for being confident (I guess). Points for remembering that I'm a vegetarian and asking me where I liked to eat. But those points get taken away since he's a bit forceful, which doesn't roll with me too well. For half the night, he was dancing all up on me with his hands glued to my hips, directing me left and right. Uck! I just met you...don't touch me. I mentioned to him a few times to take it easy, but it didn't seem to be remembered for too long. Double Uck. He apologized later, as I guess he had one too many beers pre-partying, but still "uck. Hands off buddy" So I guess it's what all us women have to deal with from time to time, but it made me realize several things that the "new" Blaire just doesn't like about going out...that the "old" Blaire didn't mind much. Here's my list...
So that's it. Mixed feelings about going out.
Honestly I don't feel like I'm missing anything out there anymore. I also
had a thought to become more active with going to networking/social events with
other lifestyle peeps....other spiritual people, veggie lovers, etc...
It's pretty nasty. I got someone else's recipe, but think I'm going to have to alter it. I'm on a "raw food" kick. Not eating 100% raw yet (I don't know if it's even something I would be interested in doing) but studying up on it. My first step is to have a fresh juice every day. It's all very interesting. Back to my books :-) Ohh..PS: If you have any juicing recipes to share with me - send them through! I'm all into it! Thanks guys, enjoy the week and Happy Halloween! I will post in a few days, if not sooner Monday, October 15th 2007 Thank you so much for answering the polls and sending me emails about what you'd like to learn about. It's super helpful! Keep voting in the polls - and let me know what you want. As I've been putting together my info it ends up I have another 3 questions for you - please answer them. It's very helpful as I want to tailor this program to you! Thanks!
Thursday, October 11th 2007 Video Post! Video Post! Video Post!
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Tuesday, September 18th 2007 Hi my friends! How are you? I've been doing okay. Just okay, as I've been a bit sad lately. The Jewish holiday (Rosh Hashanah - which Happy New Year, my Jewish friends!) was bitter sweet as we had to put one of my dogs, Max to sleep. He was 15 years old, to which people have been telling me was a very full life for a Standard Poodle. Anyway, he hasn't been doing the greatest for a long time - and over last weekend we had to say goodbye to him. It makes me sad each time I think about never seeing him again.. So just a short note from me this week as I don't feel like writing much more. He was a great dog and in many ways was my best friend. I love you Max - I'm grateful he was in my life. On the business side of things, my designer just finished our Bachelorette banner you see above. Great job Marianna - you rock! On the domestic side of things, I just bought a new bed - headboard, footboard and all. Pretty fancy! I love it and am so excited to have it in my home. Down side of it is I have to wait several weeks/months as its being custom made. See I told you - pretty fancy! Woohooo - go me! In my free time, I've been daydreaming about the vacations I'd like to take for the rest of the year and into '08. This year I'm planning the vacations ahead of time to make sure I take many of them! I'm thinking one major one in December or January (I'd love to go to Hawaii, Spain or Greece), then mini vacations in January, February, and March....I'm thinking Delray, South Beach, Swimming with the Dolphins (maybe in Mexico or the Keys). We'll see how it goes. Okay, signing off... I'll write you guys in a few days.
Thursday, September 6th 2007 Hey party people! How was your Labor Day? Mine was amazing! The most fun on a Florida vacation that I've had in a long time! I swam in the ocean and the pool almost every day (the water was sooo warm!!). Took power walks by the beach, ate out breakfast (my favorite) each morning, and re-connected with a lot of my UM (University of Miami) college friends that I had lost touch with. It was so much fun! I feel like a part of my old self has re-appeared and I'm so happy to see it. Isn't that kind of funny?! Have you ever experienced that? Is there a part of yourself that you miss? For me it was my hip-hop lovin', working out, social, party girl that was tucked away several years ago when I got bored of the whole scene. Well she's back! I went out several nights when I was down there - one night to Key Biscayne and twice in Delray. Delray isn't much of a party scene (unless you are in your late 30s-50s) but it's all good. Key Biscayne was fun. I met up with one of my guy friends from UM and met a bunch of his friends from work. It was fun to hang out with the boys again and I've been realizing over and over again this past month that I really miss and enjoy hanging out with a group of guys. It's how its been since I was young, all through college, and my first few years after college when I lived in the city. Then I got more involved with different guys and lost touch with my guy friends - they got hooked up too - and that was it. Their group of guys stayed intact, but the girl who used to hang out with them was no longer acceptable. Their new girl kept getting jealous and insecure and my guy would feel bad with me hanging out with a group of guys. Bummer, I guess....and I'm not really sure the way it "should" be, but things are a changin' Ohh - funny thing too....got picked up by a guy with a kid! Yep, that's right. Those daddy's love the Blairester! I was swimming in the ocean and got in a conversation with this hottie of a guy. I thought the kid he was playing with was his nephew - ends up he's the daddy. Bummer there. He was so cute with his son. Only 26 too! Divorced, etc, etc...anyway we were supposed to meet up at Reggae night at Boston's in Delray but things got changed and I never saw him. Maybe next time (just for the fun of it!) Anyway, the past few days I've been making a list of the places I'd like to go over the next year. Time to schedule it all - otherwise, as I've noticed I end up doing nothing...so this is the year of playtime! I'd like to go on 1 more vacation before the end of the year and then the plan is to go away every 1 1/2 months next year. I'm going to go back to Delray a few times in the winter - and I think once I'll stay on South Beach to go clubbing and meet up with my promoter friend from UM (haven't seen him in the longest). Otherwise I am thinking one BIG vacation, possibly to Spain or Greece - and then the rest smaller vacations. An idea popped into my head the other day which I'm soooo excited about - swimming with the Dolphins! I'm so excited about this!! If you have any information or have gone on a "swimming with the Dolphins" vacation email me and let me know how it was and what company you went with. I'm sooo excited!!! Pictures are below - enjoy!
Me in Delray, FL
Check out those guns! They came back strong - and with only a few times in the gym! Monday, August 27th 2007 Hey guys! Happy Monday! How are you?! That's Magic and I from this weekend. I went to visit my grandparents in Queens yesterday. I'm helping them pack up, as they're moving to Florida on a full time basis in a few months. This picture makes me laugh - my grandmother took it of us and she totally cut off my head! I love her camera skills - she cracks me up!
Here's another shot of my little man.
So these past few days have been super charged. I feel incredible. I started really going to the gym this past week and it's been amazing. I say "really" been going because over the last few months I've been there half-assed. Lifting a little bit. Taking part of a pilates class, then walking out cause I was bored or had enough. Doing some cardio. Just not really into it. This past week I felt a part of me come back. A part that I missed for quite some time. See, I used to be such a gym rat. I loved it. Loved lifting. Loved seeing the sights (if you know what I mean). And loved getting a great workout. My body always felt amazing. That left me for about a year - when I was dating SK. I was so bored of it and it really felt like a chore that I had to do. This past week has been amazing. Lifting like my old self, but better. These days, I'm more into cardio and I'm loving the sauna. It's more of a balanced workout, than just lifting, lifting, lifting, like I used to. That feels good! I also found a new gym crush - that's always fun. See my gym crush is a guy that I admire from afar. The goal isn't to talk to him or date him (although in the past that's what has always happened), but I like having a guy (or a few guys) that I admire when I'm at the gym. It keeps me motivated. I want to lift and look good for him :-) it's my fantasy that makes the gym all the more fun. So I know this guy noticed me too, as we kept lifting in the same area and exchanging looks. It's fun, but the "admiring from afar" is all I want from him. That's really all I want from any guy right now. I want them to be eye candy for me...and that's it. I'm not interested in dating, or starting a relationship, or being in a relationship, or anything. I don't even want to talk to a guy on the phone or even speak to any of them on a regular basis. I'm totally focused on myself. I'm going through a really big growth period both personally and professionally and I don't care to have anybody's energy interfering with it. So with all that said, it's been a bit of a challenge to keep the guys away. Over the past weeks I've had several, how should I call them...."Persistent Pursuers." These are guys that I meet at the park, in my building complex, and around town that just don't get the hint that I'm not interested. It's not them that I'm not interested in, per say - but just in guys in general. I don't care to get to know anyone. I don't care to make small talk or deeper talk or anything. I'm a free woman - hear me roar! On a related note, I'm totally in my party mood again. This is a part of me that I thought was long gone - but it's here again! I haven't shopped for party gear in several years, but this weekend I had the most fun shopping for sexy outfits. It was so much fun and I look good! I think when I turned 30 I was sort of bummed that I was letting myself get old, or acting older than I want to be, or something...I have no clue! But anyway, I've been cleaning up my act and showing off my body again. Tight clothes and all. I've been dressing like a total slob these last few months and totally not into looking hot and sexy. Well, the Blairester's back! I even called some guy friends that I used to party with from my college days and we're going to go out when I'm down in Miami over the next few days. I'm excited! Happy Labor Day friends. It's party time!
Monday, August 20th 2007
Hey my friends! Wow, has the whole month of August really gone by without me being able to write you? I'm so sorry! I've been thinking about you, if that helps :-) I just got back from my trip to LA. It was fun. I did a lot of walking! Stayed in Santa Monica and walked over to Venice Beach a few times. There was a lot to do and the weather was absolutely beautiful. Saw a celebrity too - which makes me laugh, since my friend who moved out to LA around a year ago always sends her friends back home an update with a list of all the stars that she sees...I always make fun of her since it sounds like she's hunting down these people, but it's true they really are all over the place. So who did I see? I saw that guy from Arrested Development (the TV show) - the father...which let me google his name, as I only know his name on the show :-)...one sec....Jeffrey Tambor. I wouldn't of known him if not for that show, he's so good in it and I was so star struck when I saw him too! Hilarious! So this was a "big" trip for me. Not cause it was a trip to the West Coast, but because it was 1) my gift to myself for my 30th Birthday and 2) the trip for me to decide if I really wanted to pursue the move out there. Well, the answer is yes. I liked it and it feels like the next step for me. For the fun of it I thought I'd share with you my top 5 list of why I like LA. 1) The weather is great, I love the warm weather each day. That also means lots of skin and lots of sundresses, which I love. 2) I love how everyone is active. I would take power walks, rollerblade, and bike by the ocean each morning and take romantic strolls with my man at night :-) 3) So many vegetarians and vegans. Wow! This really was a dream for me. Not only are there tons of these types of restaurants - but every restaurant has several vegetarian and vegan options. That rocks! 4) Tons of spiritually minded people. Love that. 5) Everyone's into Environmental issues. Well, not everyone - but the people I would be around would have all the above. 6) The Entertainment Field. I know I've gone over my Top 5 List, but I love being around people in the Entertainment Field and plan on going back into it. The whole area is so full of life for me. So there you go folks :-) The trip was a success! So now the plans continue with the move.... I'm not sure of all the steps I'm to take in the next few months, but I know the Universe will show me the way. It's kind of exciting to look at it that way (a bit scary too). Besides, the whole decision to move doesn't feel like such a major one anyway as I plan on living bi-coastally. Have a great week my friends! I'm back for a bit..then off to Delray Beach for another vacation :-) I love all the travel! I'd like to book one more trip before the year's over. Enjoy!
Monday, July 30th 2007 Hey guys - Happy Monday! Boy, has this one been busy! Here's a video I took of Magic. He's just about 7 pounds now and so cute! You meet so many people with a cutie dog. I have stories about that. Stay tuned...
Wednesday, July 25th 2007 Hi Friends. Wow, July went fast! Lots has been going on, where do I start? Well, first off I've entered into the 30-something club. Yep, I'm 30 now. (Boo-hoo) lol. Not sure it's really a club I want to be a part of, but not sure what other age would fit me. I haven't officially said to anyone how old I am (haven't been asked by a stranger yet) but I'm sure it'll happen sooner or later. I wonder how that will feel. 30 sounds old. 30 is old. Before you know it I'll be 35 and then 40. It's kind of like I entered this club that the numbers start sounding old and people start dreading their birthdays. Sounds like fun. I never thought about turning 30 until I started seriously freaking out about it around three days before my birthday. I'm not exactly sure why I was upset about it, but I guess it was the whole 30 number...saying your 20-something just sounds so much better to me, than being a 30 year old. Ohh well. Next subject. Magic turned 3 months. Now there's a darling age for ya! He's been much better, behavior wise. When I first got him he was absolutely crazy. Totally high strung. Now he's mellowed out a bit and I've trained him to follow some commands. That's been fun. He's my little baby and he's adorable. He's in, what I like to call "Level 2" of training. That's when I train him to go outside to the bathroom all the time, rather than on the wee-wee pad sometimes. I'm teaching him how to "get down" since he's a jumper. Sit and Come. He's doing pretty good with the "Come" command. Go Magic! I'll post a new picture of him shortly - he's getting bigger! Then there was a thought of SK last night. Not sure why he popped into my head, as I was busy thinking about how I'm constantly attracted to Italian, Spanish and Black guys...more on that shortly, but something had come into my head - one of our moments when I felt so happy that I was his girl - and it got me a bit sad. Then later, I was going through some journal paper which I keep by my bed and was flipping through to look at some of my notes to see what ideas had manifested (it's a common thing I do...it's fun to look back on past desires and after a few weeks/months to see which ones had happened) and had noticed I had some notes written about him, which was odd to me, since I clear all that stuff out when a break-up happens. It had the date on the page, which was about 3 months ago. I was surprised that he was still lingering in my head after that much time - and it also surprised me that it has already been 3 months. There were a few things going on here.... sort of like a weird time warp... in one way it was weird to me because it feels like longer than 3 months has gone by since we were together and then on the other hand it feels like 3 months is a long time. Not sure how to explain that. I know it's totally normal for an old thought to linger, but it was odd to me since he hasn't been in my mind in a "I miss you" sort of way. Then this morning I got another surprise, which I look at as a "wink from the Universe" when I went to take Magic out this morning to go to the bathroom. Right there in the lobby, was sitting one of SK's pieces of furniture which he had given to a neighbor when he moved out. Amazing, right! What timing, with my thoughts of him last night....and then the piece of furniture just sitting there in the lobby up for grabs. Ha! Cool, actually. I look at that as a way of knowing you're in the flow and connected! Go me. I love it when things like that happen - and they happen quite often. I feel so special :-) lol So, back to Italian, Spanish and Black guys. Yea, what's up with that? They're so hot and yummy. I can't figure out what my connection with them is. I'm a white Jewish girl and I "should" be connecting with white Jewish boys, but it never really happens that way. This attraction has been going on for years. My first boyfriend was a Diaz and boy was he a hottie. I felt so special that all the girl counselors at the summer camp I worked at wanted him...and he wanted me. Ahh...what a moment :-) lol I still remember how his hunky chest felt and how good he smelled. I wonder what he's up to now. ...j/k But it's really not like that. I'm not interested in dating him again and even the other Italian/Spanish/Black guys I see. It's not so much about setting up a home and having babies with them, but more of an animalistic connection. I just love how they look at me and how our "Cat and Mouse" chase goes. Of course I'm generalizing here and it's not all I/S/B guys that I'm attracted to and I'm sure there will be one in the mix that I will feel like setting up home with, but my point is - it's really a lot of fun to flirt with them. I think that's what is always missing from the guys I end up dating. That flirting. That teasing. That "me running away from them / playing hard to get - and them trying harder and having fun with the challenge" thing. It's fun. Okay, I just had an epiphany! Thanks for letting me write this all out.... a new realization just came to mind! I'll end on that note. Enjoy the week, my friends. I'll check in with you shortly! Enjoy the weather - tomorrow's my beach day! (pray for great weather) woohoo!
Monday, July 2nd 2007 Hi friends! Wow - can you believe it's July already? I LOVE July. Love it! Maybe I'm a bit partial to it, since it's my birthday month - but I just LOVE the summer time. I haven't had a chance to go down the shore yet - hopefully over the next few days I'll be down there. I need to make some arrangements for Magic since he can't be left for more than 3 hours. (See, it's all about doggie day care - I'm such a mom - ha!) Also I had some thoughts for those of you who want a baby, but aren't in a relationship yet. Totally go get a puppy. I know it's not a substitute for a human baby, but it'll totally take care of those maternity desires. Mine were creeping up a bit and it sure has put me in that zone. He's so adorable...and he's grown! I'll put on another picture shortly. So I've been thinking about relationships a lot lately. Whenever that happens I know there's one of two things going on 1) Healing and 2) Realizations and a powerful jump forward. My first thought was that although it would be nice to have someone in my life, I'm not really sure I want it - or maybe it's more of a confusion of male/female roles. My father is a very successful doctor and businessman - my mom was a stay at home mom (she still is, although no one is home anymore - lol). Growing up (I feel) it was all about my father. Helping him build his business, supporting him, getting dinner ready in time for when he'll be home (ha!). My relationship with SK was different. In moving forward I think my relationship will always be different than my parents. I'm the worker. I'm the Entrepreneur. I'm the one dedicated to my career, success, bringing new ideas to the world - and although I'm great at supporting a man, it's not my end all be all. His career can't come before mine - I also realized that I'm not happy with mine coming before his. So where does that leave us? Somewhere in the middle, I guess, but I realize that I don't know how that looks in the real world. I plan on staying home when I have kids, but that also means that my business will be happening during that time too. I always had a vision for my companies to run themselves and these days they pretty much do that. So where does my husband come into play? What do I see him doing? How do I see our lives? These are all good questions that I would hope you guys have thought about too. It also brought something related to mind - dating. I've always had a vision of going on date nights, each weekend. After all that's how I my parents do it :-) Every weekend they were dressed up and ready to hit the town. Dinner, drinks, shows, who knows what! This was something I thought would be nice to do "when I got older" too. But in thinking about dating - and thinking about getting dressed up and going out I feel a big "ugh" in the pit of my stomach. I realize that this is not going to work for me either. What I enjoy most is hanging around my home. Yep, I'm a homebody. All Cancers are :-) I love it! Love watching TV and love renting movies. I love cooking dinner with my mate, talking, going to the park, going on hikes, being out in nature somewhere. I love sitting on my terrace in candlelight, love reading together, love watching the ducks in the pond, love journaling together, and I love watching kids play (or playing with them). So in realizing this, I also realize that my date nights won't look anything like my parents' or anything like how I used to date. That vision no longer serves me or makes me happy. I question if it ever did, since I used to always look at the whole "get dressed to go out" as such a drag. So I'm going to let all this sit with me for a bit. See what else comes to mind, but I find it all interesting. Learn anything new about YOURSELF lately? If so, email me. On another note, I wanted to let you guys know that I am offering my support to you with Business Consulting. For many years people have been coming to me for advice and guidance on how to build a business, how to promote a business, how to get press, and all things related. I thought I'd "make it official" and put up a web page about it! Sessions are done over the phone and by appointment only. More Info here. Also, want to love in your life? Don't you think it's time you did something about it! If what you're doing isn't working...try something new! Sign up for Blaire's Love Program. More info here
Friday, June 29th 2007 Hi friends! Well, I have officially become a mom. Waking up at all hours to take Magic to the bathroom, timing out his feeding periods, tons of toys all across my floor, cleaning up lots of pee-pee and doodie, and then there's his crying...or actually his barking/whining. Yep, my days are filled with reading puppy training material and watching training material on YouTube. I'm also trying to get him into puppy kindergarten. It's very funny. Definitely a learning experience. I was pretty frustrated last week, ready to give him away - but this week it's much easier and he's so adorable. Here's another picture.
Sunday, June 24th 2007 Hi there my friends! Well today is a new day. Saw SK for the last time last Thursday (we were able to finish up all our business together) and that will be it. I don't think we will ever see one another again, it's done. I've been wanting to get closure sooner than this past week, but this is how it worked out. So it was kind of odd seeing him. Not really a fun experience at all. It's interesting how a person changes. Grant it, I can imagine there's hurt feelings or anger or who knows what but I feel it's been so long since we last spoke and last saw one another that I would think you would move past that stuff. Personally, I was coming down to chat it up with an "old friend." From his standpoint, that wasn't happening. In any event, our meeting was short and pretty fake. Man, fakeness - don't you love it - and it really got me thinking, who was this guy I fell in love with? Not that he's a bad guy, but I recognize that I tried to mold him into the person that I wanted in my life, instead of really recognizing and/or accepting who he really is. Now I know that's a typical girl thing (to try to change a guy) but I've been feeling pretty embarrassed about it this whole weekend. Kind of ashamed of myself. I know better than to be hard on myself and I know better than to try to change a guy. I saw who he was all along the way, but I guess I wanted to be in love and in a relationship so bad, that I made myself believe that all the other things were okay. Ohh well, I know to take it as a lesson, but let's just say these have been the thoughts going through my head this weekend. All we can do is to be more aware, be more selective, be more faithful as we move forward. It's a lesson, like all of life is. So in any event, I do recognize how this is also a great time for me to direct attention towards the type of guy and relationship that I really want. (When you're really clear with what you want (or don't want) it's a great time to manifest!). So I say all this to say, for those of you going through my Love Program - I'm going through it with you too! It'll be fun to manifest together. So first step, I removed all the SK posts and pictures below. It's summer time and I'm opening myself up to a new love. (not sure I'm totally ready, but I can definitely start opening myself up to it). Happy Sunday my friends!
Monday, June 18th 2007
I've been getting really good birthday gifts. This year rocks! Last weekend I booked my LA trip - it's a gift to myself, as I make my transition out there. If I like it when I visit, then I'm good to go. I'm really excited. I'm going there for a few days in August - woohoo - Santa Monica here I come! Other than that, I can't think of anything else to tell you guys. Work rocks and everything has been flowing. I'm in a really good place and I feel wonderful. I'm proud to be turning 30. It's a time in my life that I feel consistently successful - and that feels good, as I used to feel moments of success...but it was a mental state that I still felt I was striving for more of it. Now I feel successful all around and I feel relaxed in the moment of it. This is exactly how I always wanted to feel by this age. That's it. Enjoy the week my friends! It's beautiful out!
Wednesday, June 6th 2007 Hey guys! Happy Wednesday! Man, I am so energized lately. My to-do list is filled these days with so many new ideas. I'm staying up real late (which usually I go to sleep early) and also, my mind is on such a high these days. Welcome to summer, right?! Ha! Such high energy that's in the air - have you been experiencing this too?! Thank you for your emails about my Podcast. Fun/funny, right?! I'm totally aware of the mic issues and I'm playing around with software and recording devices. I'll keep you posted on that. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I love it! So what have I been doing these days, you may ask? Totally glued to my computer watching TV through the internet. Yep, that's right. I'm totally obsessed! Staying up late, waking up early, watching it on my breaks during work - - I always knew about the shows that you can watch through the internet, but was never into it...until one day I was searching for that show "Six Degrees" which I really liked, and which randomly disappeared from the TV playlist. Well, anyway, I found it online! It's such a great show! I also got into this new show...which I've been watching back to back (and to which I will go back to after I finish writing you guys) - "What about Brian". Have you seen this show? It's excellent! I love it and they have such a hot cast! (guys and girls). And, "coincidentally" it takes place in the LA area. Why am I saying "coincidentally" - well, cause I've been doing lots of research about LA lately. I realized a few weeks back, maybe a month now that I've been wanting to move out to LA for a few years now. I kept on thinking that it would be off in some near future, but with the breakup with SK and I, all of a sudden it rushed back into my mind and I'm going to start making steps in moving out there. Yep, the Blairester will be moving to LA in the near future! I'm planning on still keeping my place here (I'll go back and forth) in good ol Jersey, but LA will be my main home. I figure that next year, around July time will be a good time for me to make the move (that's when my car lease is up). So I'll start fresh, in LA when that happens. New car, new place, new man :-) You know I had to put that in there! lol. So anyway, with my 30th birthday just about 1 month away (woohoo!) I figured now's the time to step into that dream of mine. Living near the ocean, hanging out each day, back in the Entertainment field. I've been somewhat out of the TV field for around 6 years now and I miss it - so I'm going to start doing more TV gigs again. I'm really excited. This week/next week I'm going to look into hotel and plane rates and I'm going to take myself on a trip to California for my birthday :-) I'm really excited. It really lights me up just thinking about it! More on that later.... ohh, and if you know of any great, reasonably priced hotels in Santa Monica near restaurants/the ocean/shopping, etc let me know. Blaire's heading to Cali :-) I have another BIG announcement... my Bachelorette website was redesigned and it's up now. It looks awesome! I love it and my designer did such an amazing job on it. She rocks! Check it out!
Friday, June 1st 2007 Hello everyone! Happy June! I LOVE the summer, but you guys probably know that already. Today's a really quick note, as I am launching my podcast show. Yep, you are now officially invited to listen to "The Blaire Show" - podcast style. Check it out. Subscribe to it in your itunes. Forward me comments, questions, topics you'd like me to discuss. Also, if you'd like to get involved with it shoot me an email with your idea. I'm open to it all. Enjoy! The Blaire Show - Listen here: http://marryblaire.podhoster.com/ This Week Blaire Discusses:
Wednesday, May 23rd 2007 Hey guys! How is everyone? I'm still lovin' the weather. Totally been hanging out at the park (started rollerblading again! How fun!) and I love the dog park. I put in a request to the parents ;-) that I want a dog for my 30th birthday. I'm so excited! I have my big poodle, that a lot of you guys have seen a picture (scroll to the bottom of the page) of but I'd like a smaller dog that I can travel with. If you know of any dogs that need adopting, let me know! I'd love another poodle...maybe a mini one ;-) They are the best - and so cuddly and smart! So lots of stuff has been going on. Business wise, MEP was written up in another magazine. Woohoo! This time it's a German Magazine called VIEW. I'm going to get it up on the website shortly and then hopefully someone can translate it for me. They did a piece on our Naughty Girl Classes: Strip Tease, Lap, and BJ classes. It was their cover story, something about Sex in America. It was fun and it's cool that the MEP brand reaches to other countries. We've been doing a ton of parties for people out of the US. Lots of parties from Canada, Paris, Turkey, and even the UK. Very, very cool. Makes me proud.
There's also "With him or without him" toys, "Couples Toys" , "Seduction Wear", "Foreplay Fun", "Blow Job Essentials" and more. Let's just say I had fun naming each category! In any event, check out the website and let me know what you think. Hey, order away too ;-). You'll be blessed with more pleasure. ==>So check out the website and as a special gift to you guys, for everyone who purchases items between now and Friday you'll receive a FREE GIFT with your order. It's my way of saying I love you guys and thanks for supporting me and my ventures! Also, I am bringing on Love Toy Reps to sell these items to their friends/clients and to set up their own private parties. Want to start your own business? Make your own hours and great commission? This is a great job, one I'm a huge fan of. I've seen how much money my girls make and it's awesome. It's easy money and very fun. You work around 2 hours on a booking, chat about sex, help others gain more pleasure in the bedroom, and make great money. That's my idea of a great job. Also, if you'd like training, I'll help you. This job is also great for you if you are interested in changing career fields..working more in Event Planning or something related. Click here for more info and drop me a line if you'd like to get started by purchasing your kit and making money right away. I'd be happy to answer any of your questions and you can live anywhere in the world to do this! ALSO - - we're adding more Love Toy party packages to the website, so if you're interested in booking one at your home or for us to arrange a party over an open bar, plus we can add on limos, dinners, a strip tease or bj class, then give me a call at 1.888.89.EVENT. Very, very exciting stuff! I love it all Also, news on the man side of things. First off, I'm totally not interested in dating right now. I kind of avoid conversations with guys too, especially since I end up chatting with them a little bit and then it goes into the "let's hang out / can I have your number" thing and I really don't want to be turning guys down right now. They are all so sweet and genuine and I feel the chemistry between us, but again I'm really not into it right now. I am really loving spending time with myself and getting to know myself better. So in any event, let's just say I do my coy smile when a guy starts chatting with me and politely duck out of the situation. It's funny cause in a way I see how guys have been liking that (I'm all mysterious) and pursue me a bit more. I think it's fun for them. Hey, it's fun for me too as I create this fantasy in my head and look forward to "bumping" into that guy again too. I guess you can say I'm having fun flirting without wanting to pursue anything further. I don't want to talk to a guy on the phone. I don't want to make dates. I don't want any of that right now. My head's just not there...I guess neither is my heart. These days, after work hours are all about Blaire. (After all, she is the best) ;-) So with all that said, I've been noticing how attracted I am to blue collar workers. Something about them is so natural, so raw, so undeniably sexy. They're all muscular, all around my age, all Italian (at least the ones I've been coming in contact with, hey I live in Jersey) - - and did I mention HOT! I had the tile guy in my place this week and he was a hottie. A few weeks ago, it was the plumber. Yet, another hottie. Totally had attraction with both of them and did my coy girl thing with each of them too. I'm not sure what to do about these situations. It happens at the gym too (not sure if I told you guys - I started going to the gym again..after a year hiatus. I missed it!). So anyway, I can totally be dating up a storm but you know me and I'm not feelin' the casual dating. I guess I'm not feelin' the "serious" dating right now either but also, I guess a part of me is saying "go out with the tile guy. He's cute and he's sweet - go have some fun. Drink some beers, run around wild" Funny, right?! But really...is there a point? Again, I don't really feel like talking to a guy on regular basis. I don't feel like seeing a guy on a regular basis either. And I'm not into the casual sex thing either. So, for now I'll just continue with these fantasies in my head. Have a great Memorial Day Weekend my friends. Enjoy it! Wishing you the best in love, Blaire
Tuesday, May 8th 2007 Hi my friends! How are you? Enjoying this weather, I hope. I absolutely LOVE it! I've been at the park almost everyday and living each day like a vacation. This year I am really taking advantage of the freedom I have working for myself. Taking long breaks or naps in the middle of the day, waking up real early to watch movies or whatever, things along those lines - it's really wonderful and I think after my breakup with SK (which I will now call him, since he is no longer my Sweet Kisses) LOL - but anyway, you get the idea...but after my breakup with him I really "woke up" and decided TODAY's the day to start living it up. No longer am I thinking "when I get older" I will be living like this, or doing that - - but really I feel like I AM grown and I think my 30th birthday coming up in 2 months helped with that realization too. So in any event, I started really living larger and I'm liking it. It's a good look and the Universe has been supporting me with it too. I notice how I'm happier and lighter and how things that I mention I desire will appear the very next day. I can't share any personal examples right now, cause it's some big projects in the works but I promise you I will let you know :-) Let's just say good things have really been flowing in. I love it. I also have been meditating pretty solidly two times a day. That was something that I always wanted to do, but never had the discipline to do it - - well, I'm very proud to say I've been doing it and it's really been giving me a big charge and I give it big credit to keeping me in the flow with all these amazing things happening to me. So let's chat about two things. 1) what I will call "breakup" season and 2) my current thoughts on breaking up, the ex, and love. Here we go.... 1) I feel that this past month has been "breakup" season. I have to check my astrology info to see what's going on with the planets but it seems like tons of people are breaking up now - I feel it all through me and I have definitely noticed an increase in my Embracing a Breakup CD sales -- which by the way, I listened to help myself in the breakup with SW's too. How funny, right? I totally helped myself too which I thought was very, very cool. It's packed with releasing exercises, self empowerment exercises and other goodies that I found so helpful! I feel like this is a great time to breakup, not like I'm encouraging it or anything but if you're in a less than amazing relationship, then I would definitely consider it. I'll tell you why it's a great time...the sun is out, people are stripping down their clothes, everyone's in a good mood cause we're all so happy to be playing outside again, you feel free, and it's coming up to mating season (that's what I call summer - - I always find it's a big time to hookup). So that's thought #1. If you're suddenly single and feeling sad, know that I send you my blessings and go outside in the sun, spend sometime alone and breathe, read a book, watch tv, play with dogs or children in the park. I promise, you won't be sad for long. Personally, I've been going to the park to have some "me" time and each time I've gone some stranger (male and female) has started a conversation with me. Go for it - - this is a great time of year! (and of course, if you'd like additional support or even if you're not going through a breakup and are out looking for something long term - set up an appointment with me. I'd be happy to be your guide in attracting more love and happiness into your life!) 2) My current thoughts on breaking up, the ex, and love... So since the breakup I've been thinking a lot. Growing, exploring, re-defining. It's something that I always go through with any breakup or life change. I always bring it back to me and do some introspection, writing, observing, and learning. I love being a student and feel I will always be learning about love. So here it goes.... As I told you SW still works for MEP. We have meetings regularly on the phone. I have also seen him real briefly a few times to meet up and hand off things to one another. These are maybe 5-10 minute in person pass-offs. Anyway, each time I see him I wonder this same thought and notice myself drawn back into his aura. I wonder...do we ever really get over the ex or is it we just stop talking to and seeing them - and therefore they just fade out of our thoughts and we move on? Each time I see him, I feel myself attracted to him. He's been looking hot. Now, that's the extent of it. I don't desire to get back with him and I don't think he does with me. We don't have conversations like that anymore either and also, I feel I'm different from when I was with him. Well, maybe not so different but I don't desire to be with anyone right now. I really am enjoying loving myself and am very happy being "single" although I don't feel I AM single. But anyway, that's another conversation. So those are my thoughts. The love is still there, the chemistry is still there - we know what lifestyle and personality differences we don't like and that's it. That keeps us separate. I'm good with accepting that. I understand it all and I'm not sad about it, but it's just a new thought to me as I used to think that you get over your ex or relationship - - and now I don't believe that. I feel the love and chemistry remains but you just make wise brain choices that work best for your needs in a relationship. I think that's the way love goes. You need the agreement of your mind and your heart in order for someone to be "the one" for life. Enjoy the week my friends. I will be sending my loving thoughts your way! Wishing you the best in love, Blaire
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Hey
Guys! How are you? Time flies when you're having fun, right?
One of those sayings...but it's true! I've been having a really good
January and February. One of those things that's making it great is my
10-day trips to Sunny Florida. Yea, just got back a few days ago and the
weeks in between one trip to the next go really fast. I'm so proud of
myself this year. I gave "ME" a great, great gift of escaping the winter
by booking three 10 day vacations to Florida. (what great gift have you
given yourself this year? If the answer is..."Nothing" or "I don't know"..
go ahead and give yourself something wonderful) - you knew I was going to say
that, right? :-) 
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Hey Guys! Sorry I've been MIA for a few weeks...but I have good
reason - I was on vacation! Delray Beach, FL to be exact. Man, it's
beautiful there, I'm really liking it these days. I get to walk to the
beach each day, spend hours and hours day dreaming outdoors, and I always end up
meeting great people along the way. Delray is turning into a touristy type
place, I met a guy from Russia this time around. Plus a few other nice
guys, which it's funny to see me in action these days, as I'm totally
disinterested in dating. I have to come up with a new way of saying "Sure,
you can have my number - but just as friends, I'm not interested in dating these
days or anything like that" cause I think it sounds pretty lame.
Happiness.
Remember a few months ago I told you that I ordered myself a bed? Well,
happy days are here - It arrived and it was well worth the wait to get the
custom color of...yes, scarlet! I love it. It's so sultry looking
when you walk in the room. It's beautiful and I feel so glamorous for
having such a nice bed. I'm glad I got it although I had to think a little
bit about the purchase...as I am still planning on moving to LA shortly (and
don't plan on moving with my furniture). But in any event. I gotta
practice what I preach - and living in the now, and since at the time I
purchased the bed I didn't have any immediate 'packing and moving' plans - and
the benefits and energy that a new fancy bed would bring me outweighed the
questions in my mind - I got it! I'm sooo happy. Love it! I also
think I'm going to furnish more of my apartment too. I've been slowly
doing that - but again, I have mixed thoughts since I do plan on setting up some
roots in LA sometime in '08.
So
"the African"..which I guess is what I'll call him now, was okay to hang out
with. It was fun dancing and hanging out... for maybe 1 1/2hours and
then I was ready to go home. (Good thing I brought a separate car.
Yep, I'm a safety chick first and foremost). I think I liked him better
from afar, but hey, it was something to do - and it was fun to get dressed up
and feel all hot and sexy again. 
Yesterday was a
happy day - I finally bought a juicer! Below is my first juicing
concoction.... cucumbers, kale, broccoli, celery. 
Hi
my friends! That's a picture of my new leading man, Magic. I was
planning on getting a dog for my birthday (which is still a month away) but in
my research I found this guy and knew he was the one. He's so cute!
A bit feisty, but so sweet. He loves sitting on my lap or sitting on my
toes. It's something new for me - getting used to a small dog, training a
dog, etc, etc... he's up at 5am ready to go to the bathroom. So let's just
say I'm learning a whole new sleep schedule too. It's not yet 9am and I've
already been up for 4 hours! He's 1/2 Pomeranian and 1/2 Poodle mix - and
he's 2 months old. My parents got him for me as my 30th birthday gift.
Nice :-)
PS:
I can't believe I almost forgot to tell you guys.... big news! My company
was featured in The Los Angeles Times a few days ago for our Bachelorette
Parties. 