"Are you making a good impression on your dates?"
by Blaire Allison, the Love Guru
Copyright 2008
The response from most people is usually "Yes" but the reality of it is that
most people are not making a good
impression OR better said, they're not giving off the impression that they WANT
to or THINK they are.
The worst part of this is that you
may not even be aware of how you are messing up your chances for attracting that
really great guy.
Before you jump to conclusions about what I'm talking about, let me clarify...
I'm not talking about the way you dress on your dates
I'm not talking about the car you drive.
Or if you pay for 1/2 the date.
If you kiss him goodnight.
Or even if your hair or makeup looks good.
All that is very minor compared to the words you speak and the actions that you
take.
Let me explain...
Your words and your actions either act like magnets drawing hot studs closer
to you or pushing them away.
When you are confident and I'm not talking about the part of standing
straight, smiling, and pretending to come
across with high self esteem BUT when you are truly comfortable in your skin
-
When you truly know what you want...and here's the kicker.. when you are truly
COMFORTABLE, PROUD, and CONFIDENT in what you WANT in a partner and in your
life, then you speak and act the part.
When you are TRULY confident this draws men to you.
You're a magnet. It becomes easy. You meet men where ever you go, conversations
come to you wherever you go, and just as easy as all that is, you get asked out
every where you go.
You glow and you shine....and you're on your way!
Then you are truly making a good impression.
Of course there's more to it, but we'll start there.
Think about it and ask yourself the following questions:
1) Am I confident?
2) Am I TRULY confident or do I just try to act the part?
3) Am I sure of what I want in a partner?
4) Am I PROUD of what I want in a partner?
5) Do I feel I'm 100% ENTITLED to all those traits in him?
6) Am I an amazing catch? Do I truly believe this?
If a doubt arises when answering any of these questions, if you'd like
attracting men to be easier, if you are not getting the BEST matches for
yourself...and if you think you could do MUCH better, if you wonder if you are
making a good impression....or worry that you may not be - Then let's talk. I'd
be happy to work with you one on one through
phone coaching OR get your
at home copy of the Love
Guru's Dating Boot Camp.
Wishing you the best in love,
Blaire Allison
The Love Guru