by Blaire Allison The Love Guru

Yes, if you haven't realized it by now, I love TV.  But not just TV, reality TV.

Today's Dating Advice was inspired by ABC's The Bachelorette.  She does it right!

This week's episode of "The Bachelorette" amazed me.

It impressed me

And it made me a BIG ADMIRER of DeAnna

Why?

In case you missed this week's episode, it showed DeAnna opening up big time to all the boys - at once - on how she is really vested in the whole tv process of finding her "One", how she's really serious about it, how she's been opening her heart to each man there, really being present with each one of them, and how it's not a game to her...

She really wants love.
She really wants the connection
She really wants to find her husband
And she really wants to get married.

This was a very emotional moment in "Bachelor" history.

Putting yourself out on the line, in front of 10+ new men that she's trying to "catch", as well as being super vulnerable in front of millions and millions of viewers.

No games with her.
No secrets about "catching a guy"  or "tricking him" into something serious.

She is honoring her desire
She's honoring her heart
She's honoring her emotions
And completely, honestly, and whole-heartedly opened up - to all of them.

And what happened.....?

Did she scare away the men?  NO!

Did they back away and say, "that girl is way too emotional"
"She's way too crazy"
"She's way too intense"
"Eww..marriage, committment, I'm sooo scared and turned off"

Did they say that?
No!

Did any of them react that way?
No!

Instead.. you know what happened?  They all stepped it up - and opened THEIR hearts more to connect with her!

Pretty amazing, right?

She's an amazing woman and I truly admire and applaud her.

So, on to you... is it YOUR time? 

Are you ready to open up, stand up, and honor YOUR heart?

If you need help, take your first step here



Wishing you the best in love,
Blaire Allison
The Love Guru