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ABC's
The Bachelor Gives Women Bad Dating Advice on Finding Love
The Love Guru Blaire Allison Comments...
So what does The Bachelor have to do with Dating Advice?
It's a reality show, not an advice or talk show, so what's the connection?
In the commercial previewing the upcoming season of The Bachelor it shows 15+
girls competing, crying, fighting, and obsessing over The Bachelor.
Why?
Because as we all know, the last girl standing, gets the guy.
4 Ways ABC's The Bachelor Gives Women Bad Dating Advice on Finding Love
1.
ABC's Show The Bachelor tells women they must compete to get "the" guy.
The truth is you don't need to compete to find love. You don't need to battle it
out against anyone. You don't need to fight, make yourself be noticed, you don't
have to be the loudest, the prettiest, the most seductive. Love doesn't work
like that.
Love isn't
a competition, it's a connection.
2.
ABC's Show The Bachelor gives all the power and control to the guy.
The truth is when on dates, in a relationship, and when looking for love, you're
both in control. You BOTH decide if the you're a match. You BOTH decide if you'd
like to see one another again. You BOTH decide if the other person's
interesting, attractive, and intelligent. This is how love works. Even though
the show may be set up that The Bachelor is giving each girl a rose or maybe on
your first few dates you wait for the man to take the lead - and ask you out
again, this is only part of the truth. You always have a say in the matter and
many times women get caught up in "What does he want?" "Does he like me?" -
rather than the more empowering side of it and ask themselves..."What do I
WANT?" and "Do I LIKE HIM?"
The sooner
you realize that you're in control of your relationship, the happier (and more
successful) you'll be.
3.
ABC's Show The Bachelor shows women heartbroken and crying when The Bachelor
doesn't pick them
The truth is its okay to cry when a relationship doesn't work out, but what the
girls have with The Bachelor isn't a relationship, its reality made for TV. What
this means is it's overly produced and overly edited. The goal is to "get good
tv" which means, the producers hype up the participants to get super excited
about The Bachelor that he's some great trophy.
In reality,
The Bachelor (or the guy you're dating) is not a trophy, he's just like you....
a real person.
4.
You're love life is doomed when The Bachelor doesn't pick you.
The truth is, when any date or relationship doesn't work out there's always a
better match out there that's coming closer. This guy who dumped you or didn't
"give you a rose" just made space for your new guy.
It's better
that you thank him and thank the Universe, rather than going into doomsday
thinking that you'll never find another guy as good as him.
You'll be pleasantly surprised when you meet that better guy who's waiting for
you, right around the corner.
Now with all that said....The TV Show, The Bachelor is just that... A TV Show.
It's meant to be fun, light, and entertaining -
and that it is!
Feel
free to post your comments, thoughts, and realizations below....
Not sure why you can't find a guy to have a long lasting, deep relationship
with?
Most likely it's because you are going about dating wrong. Keep reading
here....http://www.loveguru.net/prepareyourself.html
Wishing you the best in
love,
Blaire Allison
Love Expert
The Love Guru
© 2008 Blaire Allison, LLC and LoveGuru.net and MarryBlaire.com
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